For a few days it has been lingering in my mind that, for the sake of us both, based on my 'issues' with stress that I should reject an important person from my life.
Tonight, I made my final decision on the matter and told J that I feel we should just be friends.
In the past I have had to do this because I didn't like the person. this time I am doing it because I am afraid of liking this person too much.
I've been down the road of falling for someone and being heartbroken...I am not doing that again.
What I'm afraid of now is that I have just done that very thing to someone else, someone that despite my reasons for doing it, I still care for very much.
Did I do the right thing?
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Someone did that to me once and it was hearbreaking. I don't suppose that helps really and every situation has to be judged individually. Only you...and the other person, can know whether you mad the right decision - and it's not set in stone.
Again I'm with Jenny, to be rejected for those reasons would be heartbreaking, it's hard enough when it's because you're not loved let alone when you are, but only you truly know if you made the right decision and if it was right for you then it's right. I know...not much help but knowing you as I do I can't imagine you made the decision lightly. *hugs*
I you push people away because you're afraid of getting hurt, you not only dispose of potential heartache, but you dispose of potential bliss, as well.
Jennyta/Gemmak: Youre both right, thank you xx xx
Lisa: Very valid point, thank you xx
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