Human nature determines that we feel threatened if newblood arrives into our familiar territory. I would say this was true of most people. Change is a big thing, and often terrifying,particulalry where people are concerned.
And I must say, after trying for eight long years to maturely accept the new person that gatecrashed my new life, I can finally deem it failed. Everyone who knows me on any personal degree will also be aware of my feelings towards my mum's chosen suitor (I use this word in it's broadest terms)
I have tried extremely hard to get to know the oaf and to get along (and I'll be the first to admit that I'm not necessarily the easiest person to get along with) but it's just not happened. Whether it's my fault or more to do with the fact that he's a thick, immature, abusive, pathetic, tempermental control freak Im not quite sure but whatever it is, I have officially given up making that extra effort for my mum's benefit.
She has made her choice and that choice is for her, but I'm damned if I have to be forced to be happy with it as well.
Especially when she's not happy herself.
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9 comments:
who r u talking about??? i guess your karate is going to have to protect you :) and your not hard to get along with to me your easy to get along with but were just made for each othr :) lol
Ezekiel 25:17 ;o)
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Ohh The Pulp Fiction Version obviously :o)
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Not the real Bible one, thats just to boring... ;o)
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Cus Jesus aint as kool as Samuel :o)
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lol Fletch. And there was me thinking I was popular with 5 comments!
Walo : Na, just me rambling on to myself :o)
U Kool Bro?
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When you're a parent, sometimes you have to sit back and let your children make their own decisions and choices in life. I guess it's the same with a parent.
Jennyta: You couldn't be more right. It's at a stage now where nobody is happy with the situation...yet nobody has the guts to rock the boat enough to change anything about it.
Catch 22 really!
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Fletch: yes, everything is fine. Hope everything is good down your way!
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